The Unreal Expectations on Fathers...

“Men have burdens as well as privileges in our society. So often, we emphasize the privileges and overlook the burdens.  When we have such an unbalanced view, we fail to understand the needs and circumstances of a male, whether he is a child or grown man.  Perhaps so many men have not succeeded in their marriage because the expectations of them have been so high and often contradictory. Married men are often expected to have such qualities as being the capable provider, aggressive competitor, wise father, sensitive and gentle lover, fearless protector, cool and controlled negotiator under pressure, and being emotionally expressive.” - Goldberg 1976