Chronicles of a Survivor!

The chronicles of a struggling surviving father who insists on living a life for the good of the family and accomplish the goals of a
thriving and happy family in America today.










Saturday, December 7, 2013

Surrendering is victory? Yes!

Surrendered yet?


Many times I have heard people tell me to surrender to The Lord. What does that really mean, seriously? 

Aside from the assumption that these people act or ask as if they themselves live a total or fulfilled surrendered life. 

The problem with this whole issue is that the pride of life and the compromise to sin holds people captive.  I know this from experience.  Not only understanding that a very poor choice has been made but then admit to God that He was offended by my sin is daunting and pride also sets in. Sin has a way of making things gray and confusing to the mind and heart. 

How then does a person surrender?

1. Reflect and admit that what you are doing is wrong. How do you know ? Well your conscience is telling you. Do you experience shame and guilt? Do you prefer no one sees your deeds? If yes, then that is what needs to be brought to the light. 

2. Bring it to The Lord... He already knows and understands your heart.  He is ready and willing to forgive you (1 John 1:9).

3. Trust that The Lord has forgiven you and He does not accuse you.  He desires to restore you to peace and fulfillment in your heart.  So that you are spiritually filled to be able to fulfill your God given purpose. 

4. Know your weaknesses.  By knowing the weaknesses you will be able to keep alert when the enemy tempts you.  By knowing the weakness, you can use your strengths to defend yourself from falling to weakness. 

5. You cannot do this alone... Pray and invite God to help you. Invite a mature Christian to assist you in prayer and accountability.  Read the word so that Gods encouragement and council is fresh in your heart and mind.

Fear the Fear

Fear....


After living so many struggles and disappointments, it becomes an automatic bi-product to live in fear.  I do not mean a phobic fear.  

But is a self doubting fear... 
Struggling to overcome the current crisis... 
Suspecting that any time another will sprout...  

Living under these conditions affects the emotional state of a man... How can vision be clear when rest and preparation is a rare luxury... 


Prayer consists of begging and supplication for mercy, grace and a helping hand... Faith is tested time and time again...  Reminds me of the time Peter called to Jesus; "Save me!" after falling into the water in the middle of the sea in a storm.... 


Save me Jesus!!!

But it is human nature to leave God out of it and adopt an attitude of self preservation.... "I got it... I will take care of it!... 

But if that was true... Really... Considering truth and reality... Why do things get messed up if I (we) "got it" or we are "handling it"?

In reality we are imperfect.. With flaws and defects... We don't got it really we don't.  
I don't got it and need God to help me get it!

I need to surrender to Jesus all things....