"I am barely making ends meat!!"

In reflection of this last emotionally charged court confrontation, I am remembering these words that just continue to echo in my head:

"I am barely making ends meat!!"

The judge and people in the room do not even under stand how OUTLANDISH this statement is.  Let's run down the numbers:

Upon separating, she took $51,000 of my money from my savings.
She kept the brand new Toyota Rav4 that was paid off.
Kept all furniture, tools, jewelry and anything to everything in the house.
Took half of my retirement that at that time I had over $5000 and took half.
She kept my house that I paid $398,000 and was worth about $120,000 in the market and owed $89,000 which can be said its a difference of $25,000 in her favor. 
She has a bachelors degree because I helped her earn that degree and works a full time job.
Judge Michael Kemp awarded her $900 plus child support totaling $1650 per month.

Then in court she has the audacity to say she is barely making ends meat??? In the same court session whee I am telling the Judge that she left our daughter unsupervised with a male in his house while she went to get her nails done!!! Just barely making it??  I know people who are barely making it and do not have car, ride the bus, pick up a food box to supplement their pantry and if luck may get to go on a weekend treat to McDonald's to buy a dinner off the dollar menu.

So there she is in court working up some tears telling the judge that she is financially struggling or just surviving and yet weeks prior to the court hearing my former residence was sold for $195,000 while she owed $98,200 dollars.  Lets do the math:

$195,000   Price of Sale of the home
$ 98,200    Total mortgage owed
$106,000   Total difference after mortgage being paid
  $35,000   Taxes, Realtor fees and other needed fees paid
  $71,000   Money left over!

How many "barely making ends meat people are sitting on over $70,000 in their checking account??
I do not know of any but one; my neurotic ex-wife.

I ask myself if the church people actually know the greed this woman has?? There is so much to the neurosis of this woman!!!

To Post or Not to Post

"He is posting Derogatory things about me!"

Maricopa County Superior Court, Surprise, Arizona

There I was again in court trying to fend off one more legal maneuver form my ex-wife.  This time I took here to court to get somethings right!

First I requested to have more days with my daughter.

Second, I requested for the spousal support to be eliminated.

Third, that her boyfriend has no unsupervised time with my daughter.

That child support be adjusted.

I presented to the judge my reasons for requesting more days with Felicity.  I presented the fact that there was no absolute reason to limit me to have additional days with my daughter. Also I added that Felicity had requested these days because she missed me. I added that I have emails where my ex said Felicity missed me. The judge will look to protect my daughter's welfare and best interest. The judge gave me two more nights per week when Felicity comes to my home.

Second was the request to stop the spousal support. Due to the legal technicallity that I signed a decree, it is a legal contract and cannot be stopped unless my ex-wife is married. Many in her social circles do not know that she lives with her boyfriend. Lives with the guy and goes to church. She is not a person that honors and respects the name of Jesus Christ my savior. There is so much to be said on this topic I rather just write a series of blog entries just on this.
Third is the stop of my ex-wife's boyfriend access to my daughter unsupervised. Felicity's mother is a victim of sexual abuse by her uncle as her mother watched. It is a tragic situation as you can imagine. Having stated this, it would make sense that my ex-wife would guard Felicity like nothing else. In stead, puts Felicity in potential danger in the reach and care of a strange man while she goes to get her nails done. I would gave imagined that she would do anything to make sure the history does not repeat itself.

To my disbeleif, the judge sided with my ex-wife stating that there was no evidence this man represented a threat to Felicity and my request was denied. I disagree 100%! Felicity does not have to be a sacrificial lamb to fulfill this judge's requirements to be concerned. Its outrageous!
It is a matter of public record that I fought for my daughter and her safety. Let the public record also show that Felicity's mother faught more for my money and the access of this strange man to my prescious flower!
I will continue to fight for my daughter!

I'm out!