Chronicles of a Survivor!

The chronicles of a struggling surviving father who insists on living a life for the good of the family and accomplish the goals of a
thriving and happy family in America today.










Friday, February 13, 2015

"I am barely making ends meat!!"

In reflection of this last emotionally charged court confrontation, I am remembering these words that just continue to echo in my head:

"I am barely making ends meat!!"

The judge and people in the room do not even under stand how OUTLANDISH this statement is.  Let's run down the numbers:

Upon separating, she took $51,000 of my money from my savings.
She kept the brand new Toyota Rav4 that was paid off.
Kept all furniture, tools, jewelry and anything to everything in the house.
Took half of my retirement that at that time I had over $5000 and took half.
She kept my house that I paid $398,000 and was worth about $120,000 in the market and owed $89,000 which can be said its a difference of $25,000 in her favor. 
She has a bachelors degree because I helped her earn that degree and works a full time job.
Judge Michael Kemp awarded her $900 plus child support totaling $1650 per month.

Then in court she has the audacity to say she is barely making ends meat??? In the same court session whee I am telling the Judge that she left our daughter unsupervised with a male in his house while she went to get her nails done!!! Just barely making it??  I know people who are barely making it and do not have car, ride the bus, pick up a food box to supplement their pantry and if luck may get to go on a weekend treat to McDonald's to buy a dinner off the dollar menu.

So there she is in court working up some tears telling the judge that she is financially struggling or just surviving and yet weeks prior to the court hearing my former residence was sold for $195,000 while she owed $98,200 dollars.  Lets do the math:

$195,000   Price of Sale of the home
$ 98,200    Total mortgage owed
$106,000   Total difference after mortgage being paid
  $35,000   Taxes, Realtor fees and other needed fees paid
  $71,000   Money left over!


How many "barely making ends meat people are sitting on over $70,000 in their checking account??
I do not know of any but one; my neurotic ex-wife.

I ask myself if the church people actually know the greed this woman has?? There is so much to the neurosis of this woman!!!


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